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Rediscovering Rest ๐๏ธ
"Real rest doesn't make you better at work โ that's why it's rest." Burkeman argues we've turned leisure into another form of self-improvement, and broken it in the process.
Today's Plan
- โ Catch up & popcorn20 min
- ๐๏ธ Chapter summary10 min
- ๐ฌ Discussion questions25 min
- ๐ฑ One take-away each5 min
1 ยท Catch Up โ
First 20 minutes
Before we get into the chapter, let's land together. Fire up the popcorn picker and share whatever feels right:
- How was your week โ actually?
- What's your weekend looking like? Will any of it actually be rest?
- One thing you're glad about right now.
2 ยท Chapter Summary ๐๏ธ
10 minutes
A walk through Chapter 9 โ how leisure got optimized, the original meaning of Sabbath, and Burkeman's argument for "useless" rest as the only kind that works.
3 ยท Discussion Questions ๐ฌ
25 minutes
Pick the ones that feel interesting โ no need to go in order.
- When you imagine "real rest," what comes to mind? When did you last actually have any of it?
- Burkeman says we've made even leisure productive โ workouts to get fit, vacations to recharge, hobbies to monetize. Where have you done this with your own free time?
- What's a kind of rest you used to enjoy that now feels like a chore because you're trying to "do it well"?
- The chapter cites the Sabbath: a protected day where work isn't even an option. What would it look like to have something like that in your life? What's blocking it?
- Burkeman argues "wasted" time is often the most life-giving โ staring at a wall, walking nowhere, doing nothing. When did you last waste time without guilt?
- What's the difference between rest that recovers you for more output and rest that's an end in itself? Which kind do you actually get?
- What's one thing you'd do this week purely because it was useless and you enjoyed it?
4 ยท One Take-Away ๐ฑ
Last 5 minutes
Around the group, one sentence each:
- One thing you're taking with you from today.
- One useless, unproductive thing you'll let yourself enjoy this week.
Notes from the session
Filled in after we meet