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Date Seven
You, Me, and Us
Growth & Spirituality
A great relationship supports each person becoming more themselves. This date is about the inner life — what gives meaning, what you believe, how you're changing.
Exercises
- Share your spiritual or philosophical background — what you were raised with, what you kept, what you let go.
- Talk about what gives your life meaning now, and where you find awe.
- Name a way you've grown in the past few years, and a way you still want to grow.
- Discuss how you can support each other's growth — including the parts that are uncomfortable.
- Identify one shared practice (meditation, nature, service, ritual) that could belong to both of you.